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Historic Marker Ensures Children's Home Will Always be Remembered

Building once occupied full block in Lake Bluff until the late 1960s.

 

It's probably been more than 40 years since Heather Madison Walden has stood on the ground where the Lake Bluff Children's Home once occupied a full block near the northeast corner of East Scranton and Evanston Avenues.

But this place holds good memories for her even if the circumstances that put her in the children's home from 1961-64 were not. Walden's parents were getting a divorce and her father had a drinking problem.

 "My Mom explained our going to the Children's Home like it was just like cousin Linda, who was going to college," Walden said. "'We will see you at times. We still love you,' my Mom said."

While at the orphanage, Walden said she doesn't recall "any time where I was scared out of my wits, it was uneasy at times, but not scared," she said. "Thinking back we were able to go to things. We saw Victor Borge, Narrator of Stories and Harmonicats. We had opportunities we would not have had like going to the circus and Riverview every year. We saw moves. I think we were fortunate."

To commemorate the memory of the children and staff that lived and worked at the orphanage, a historic marker was officially installed Monday in a sidewalk panel at the northeast corner of East Scranton and Evanston Avenues in Lake Bluff.

The Lake Bluff Children's Home began in 1894 with the arrival of six orphans from Chicago and within a couple years grew to 30 children. The building was incorporated in 1895 as the Lake Bluff Methodist Deaconess Orphanage and between 1895-1969 expanded to become known as the Lake Bluff Children's Home, housing over 100 children per year and covering the entire 200 block of Scranton Avenue.

Memorial Marker Coordinator Tom Tincher explained many of the children who stayed at the home were not orphans, but given up by parents who could no longer afford to support them.

"Many of these children grow up and return to visit the Lake Bluff Community," Tincher said. "They are disappointed the orphanage is not there. This marker can alert people to where it stood."

The Vliet Center for Lake Bluff History collaborated on the historic marker initiative with the Lake Bluff Women's Club, Village of Lake Bluff, Grace United Methodist Church and ChildServ.

In 1973 the Lake Bluff Children's Home was renamed ChildServ and moved to Chicago.  Jim Jones, ChildServe CEO, said "there was such wisdom and such a vision for what the organization is today. Like to think that 116 years later it is still the same, wanting to bring permanent support to families."

"ChildServ is Lake Bluff's Home," Jones added. "In terms of making a commitment to serve today's disparate people in underserved communities, they need the same kind of love they had then. All communities need to keep a great beginning alive."  

Over the years the Vliet Center has collected documents and photographs, as well as positive feedback from visitors who lived in the orphanage and come back thrilled to see the museum exhibits. Often they report the times spent in Lake Bluff were the happiest days of their life. 

Phyllis Albrecht, former Village president and Vliet director, explained that "the dedication of caregivers to children is a story we hear over and over again." 

United Methodist Church Pastor Debbie Fisher explained "the Methodist Church was right across the street from the orphanage. They came and filled our Sunday school classrooms and sang in our Choir. It was a wonderful relationship."

Many of the volunteers and employees of the Children's Home were also church members, explained resident Mary Dalton, who has lived in the area since 1954. Long time townie Ethel Tincher explained that "people really felt connected with the Children's Home. Many pictures hanging in the Vliet Center used to be in the Methodist Fellowship Hall."

 Volunteer Kraig Moreland is currently working to raise enough money to finish producing a video on "Memories of the Children's Home of Lake Bluff."  Moreland has traveled to 10 states to interview and gather information.

"Everyone I talked to, people who worked here, then went to work at other orphanages, all stated that it was not the same feel," Moreland said. "The staff and people who worked here were family. The married couples and people taking care of them were one big family. They had some outstanding leaders, and staff that were committed to kids."

Related Topics: Dedication, Lake Bluff Children's Home, Orphanage, and Vliet Museum
What are your memories of the Lake Bluff Children's Home? Tell us in the comments.

sharon bede

2:49 pm on Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Would you possibly have and e-mail or phone number that I could contact to find out my son's Medical History? He was born on May 17, 1966 at McNeal Hospital in Oak Park, Ill. And we were able to take him home on June 14, 1966. The adoption was finalized in December 1966 (the attorney handling it was from Oak Park, Ill.). The church pastor (Rev. Miller) that recommended us to Lake Bluff Childrens home was from Morgan Park Methodist @ 110th & Longwood Drive Chicago, Illinois. My name at the time was Sharon Daily (Stephen Daily Husband). My name now is Sharon Bede. My son is not well and has been diagnosed with High Blood pressure and diabetes. We would appreciate any information you might have.
Thank you,
sharonbede@comcast.net or 702-592-7700 Cell

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Betty Reed

7:35 pm on Wednesday, June 13, 2012

I was in Lake Bluff Orphanage during the war years 1940 / 1944. (air raid sirens and 'blackout blankets hung over windows.)
We were four children.....I Betty being the eldest at six yrs. and all two years apart in age.
I remember Mummsie Molder who was the matron of our floor.
I remember all my Sunday's while there....visitors day.....rest time during midday......phone ringing at far end of hall .....heavy, echoing footsteps coming my way.............coming my way and I ..............praying................"Let it be me, let it be me!" Rarely a visitor for us. We breathlessly
laid there........ waiting for phone to ring and the process to begin again.
Years later.... became aware of reason why mother didn't come often. She lived far South of Chicago and times were hard .
I was adopted at age ten. Sister ....next in line.... was taken by another family. Two younger siblings were in a foster home and then back to orphanage...then to mother ......back to orphanage etc.
Met them many years later.............sad life.
Kind people in charge of us.
Mr and Mrs Law (he played Mandolin) . They lived on property. Always... unfinished jig saw puzzle on card table. Each piece was numbered on back. CUTE. They made me feel special.

It was lovely finding this site............

Betty

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Kraig Moreland

11:39 pm on Monday, December 17, 2012

Betty -- would love to talk to you if you ever pick up on this message.
Kraig Moreland
nvacontact@me.com

Sidelle Stone

10:41 am on Wednesday, December 12, 2012

I'm a SURVIVOR OF THAT PLACE! WHY DIDN'T ANYONE CONTACT ME! I EVEN MADE A GROUP ON FB FOR IT. I HAVE A FEW HUNDRED LETTERS FROM THEN STILL! IT WAS HELL! I STILL HAVE NIGHTMARES. TALK TO ME IF YOU WANT THE TRUTH & INFO. I WAS THERE 3 YEARS W MY SISTER! I CALLED LAKE BLUFF BEFORE & THEY HAD NO RECORDS! ALONG W MY SISTER GOING THERE TO TELL ME IT WAS LEVELED. SHE PASSED FROM OVARIAN CANCER! PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEE CONTACT ME! LIKE FOREST GUMP I NEEDED TO THROW A ROCK THRU A PLACE THAT DOESN'T EXIST.... THANKYOU SIDELLE STONE AT sidelle1@netzero.com

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