Lake Bluff resident Chris Hambleton and Lake Forest resident Jeff Folker were successful businessmen, husbands, and fathers. They spent most of their days, and many nights, away from home while building their careers, while their wives were doing the same. Then they realized that something had to give. “We got to the point where we didn’t want a third party raising the kids,” said Folker. Jeff and Julie Folker and Chris and Wendy Hambleton don’t know each other, but they have a lot in common. They were both in a situation where their wives’ careers where thriving, and their husbands were …